{"id":4829,"date":"2013-07-18T22:37:47","date_gmt":"2013-07-19T02:37:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/planfoundations.com\/?p=3471"},"modified":"2013-07-18T22:37:47","modified_gmt":"2013-07-19T02:37:47","slug":"how-to-negotiate-a-truce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pioneerbusinessventures.com\/nsite\/how-to-negotiate-a-truce\/","title":{"rendered":"How To: Negotiate a Truce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3473 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/planfoundations.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/ScreenHunter_122-Jul.-19-10.30.jpg\" alt=\"ScreenHunter_122 Jul. 19 10.30\" width=\"462\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva; font-size: medium;\">Don&#8217;t just rip the other person off. Learn to negotiate and build a partnership.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">Negotiating isn\u2019t about getting a great deal; it\u2019s about building a partnership. Rip off your counterpart and you might get a one-time windfall. But by searching for middle ground, healthy profits could roll in on both sides for the foreseeable future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">That\u2019s the advice from John McAdam, head of the consultancy Pioneer Business Ventures and author of <em>The One-Hour Business Plan Foundation<\/em>. \u201cMany times people go into negotiations thinking it\u2019s a zero-sum game, and the only way they can be proud of themselves is if they take all,\u201d says McAdam, who teaches business strategy at The Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania. \u201cThat is kind of childish, and it is our grandfathers\u2019 way of doing business.\u2026 For me, the best deals are those in which my partner wins, their clients win, then I win\u2014in that order,\u201d McAdam says. \u201cThen you are building something bigger that will have results beyond the deal at hand.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">Before you approach the other party for a better price or sweeter terms, take two steps.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><em><strong>Step 1: <\/strong><\/em>Figure out what makes the other party tick. Do your homework. \u201cYou\u2019ll get a flavor of the company and the person, and see what their priorities and passions are,\u201d McAdam says. Walk into the meeting with a list of three things you want in the deal, and three items you believe the other party would like.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><em><strong>Step 2:<\/strong><\/em> Determine your bottom line. \u201cKnow what your alternative is if you have to walk away from the negotiation,\u201d says Kevin Corley, associate professor of the W.P. Carey School of Business at Arizona State University, who teaches a course on negotiations. \u201cIt is a very powerful position.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">But be careful to avoid having a hair trigger on the nuclear option. \u201cWalking away not only terminates the deal, but the relationship,\u201d McAdam says. \u201cSmall-business owners usually can\u2019t afford that.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">Other strategies, with scripts for how to tackle them:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><strong>1. <\/strong>Just ask for what you want. Don\u2019t make it\u00a0emotional.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Say this:<\/span> \u201cInstead of 30-day terms, I need 90 days. How can we make this happen?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><strong>2.<\/strong> Immediately offer something in return.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Say this:<\/span> \u201cI promise to pay you on that 89th day and will agree to sign a three-year deal instead of our usual two-year contract.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><strong>3. <\/strong>Be open-minded and creative. \u201cWith small businesses, there are a lot of considerations aside from the price of goods,\u201d Corley says.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Say this:<\/span> \u201cI can agree to keep the monthly retainer the same if you agree to bump up the hours of service.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><strong>4.<\/strong> Don\u2019t lay all your cards on the table. \u201cIf you appear overprepared, you\u2019ll look like a warrior,\u201d McAdam says.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Say this:<\/span> \u201cHelp me understand why what I am asking for is not possible. I\u2019d like to continue our relationship, if possible.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><strong>5.<\/strong> It takes two to tango.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Say this:<\/span> \u201cThis deal has to work for both of us or we can\u2019t do it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">Adds McAdam: \u201cIf the other guy senses he\u2019s being perceived as beating up on you, he\u2019ll feel like a jerk and chill out.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3472 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/planfoundations.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/ScreenHunter_122-Jul.-19-10.32.jpg\" alt=\"ScreenHunter_122 Jul. 19 10.32\" width=\"141\" height=\"182\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><strong>Kevin Harney<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <em>Principal and CFO<\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><strong>Company<\/strong>: Stalco Construction, a general contractor and construction manager in Islandia, N.Y.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <strong>Tactic<\/strong>: Cultivate loyalty in vendors and employees by negotiating better terms to thrive through the recession.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"> <strong>Result<\/strong>: Tripled revenue and grew staff by a\u00a0third.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">In 2008 we saw the writing on the wall but wanted to keep the company intact through what looked to be a tough economy. We set a crazy goal: not to make money, but to be in a strong position to grow after the recovery. We laid out this plan to our 32 employees and asked for their commitment to brainstorming ways to be competitive and efficient. In return, we promised they would keep their jobs and all their benefits.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">It was about creating an atmosphere of commitment and family, and addressing employees\u2019 fears, as they saw our competition getting rid of their more expensive talent. That same principle was applied to our vendors. In order to execute our plan, we needed to grow our marketing budget from $20,000 to $250,000 by 2009. To find that money, we renegotiated all our nonessential services. We said, \u201cWe don\u2019t want to lose your service. What are you willing to do so you can keep your bills paid, just like I need to pay my bills?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">We negotiated discounts on bottled water, coffee and information technology\u2014getting 30 hours of support for the same price as the 20 we had been receiving. Each day we buy our entire staff lunch and eat together, previously paying $10 to $12 per meal, typically. We asked local restaurants to offer menus for $5 per meal, and our employees voted on what they wanted. Some restaurants came back with better $5 menus when they missed our business. After a while we raised it to $6 per meal, because it\u2019s important to be fair.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">Some services we could not negotiate, so we stuck to our word and cut those: We could not find a paper vendor providing a price that worked, so we invested $45,000 in a paperless system and saved $90,000 the first year.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">We make sure our vendors and employees understand our business works on small margins, and winning a bid can come down to a quarter of a percent. If everyone understands, it makes small changes easier. Loyalty goes both ways. In tough times we\u2019ve asked our coffee vendor to give us a break, but I will never again look elsewhere when times are good.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">We have hired 12 people since 2008 while tripling our revenue. It was a grind, but we did it. We never missed a 401(k) payment, and we still feed our staff every day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t just rip the other person off. Learn to negotiate and build a partnership. Negotiating isn\u2019t about getting a great deal; it\u2019s about building a partnership. Rip off your counterpart and you might get a one-time windfall. But by searching for middle ground, healthy profits could roll in on both sides for the foreseeable future. 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